23:41"

I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.

..I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum.

“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”

I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away..

..Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is “The actors are clearly visible”.

" —

David Wong, 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person

This never gets old. 

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23:39

sexynakedblackguy:

A woman who finds beauty within herself without comparing to other women will always win in life.

Need to do this

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Audrey Hepburn, 1956.
23:36

Life is so hard when your best friend is a 9.5/10 and you’re a strong 4 with the right filter and lighting

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“A Life to be Living"
 
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A letter from Matisse
Everything you love is here
23:34"My only regret is that I didn’t tell enough people to fuck off." — My 92 year old grandma. - lule-bell (via perfect)

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23:27"The sign of intelligence is that you are constantly wondering. Idiots are always dead sure about every damn thing they are doing in their life." — Vasudev  (via skinandboneskeleton)

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23:27"Don’t get too high and mighty, ladies. Don’t step out of line. Don’t do anything to upset or disappoint men who feel entitled to your time, bodies, affection or attention. Your bared body can always be used as a weapon against you. You bared body can always be used to shame and humiliate you. Your bared body is at once desired and loathed." — Roxane Gay: The Great Naked Celebrity Photo Leak of 2014 is just the beginning (via guardian)

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